★ ★ ★ ★ ☆
There was no room in
my marriage for me anymore, except as genetic material. (p. 44)
Zoe, a music therapist, and Max, who has his own landscaping
business, have been trying to conceive for years, but to no avail. Zoe is
desperate to have a baby, but Max is close to giving up and feels that trying
to get pregnant has taken over their marriage. As the costs of IVF treatment
spiral and tensions between them mount, the situation comes to a head when Zoe
miscarries and Max, buckling under the strain, leaves the relationship. Max
moves in with his married, successful brother, and founders in a fog of
self-loathing and alcoholism. When his uncontrolled drinking leads to a car
accident, Max experiences an epiphany of sorts, quits drinking and joins his
brother’s evangelical Christian church which is led by the smooth, populist
Pastor Clive.
In music, perfect
pitch is the ability to reproduce a tone without any reference to an external
standard. (...) In life, perfect pitch is the ability to know someone from the
inside out, even better maybe than she knows herself. (p. 135)
In the meantime, Zoe does her own grieving over the
miscarriage and reels from blow after blow from life: her divorce, the
diagnosis of a thromboembolism, and finally endometrial cancer, which
necessitates a hysterectomy. Zoe finds help and friendship in Vanessa, a school
counsellor. Completely compatible, they eventually find their relationship has
blossomed into love, and decide to get married. Much as she loves Vanessa, Zoe
is hesitant to come out to anyone about their relationship – she feels it
should be no one’s business but her and Vanessa’s. Luckily, she realises that
coming out for her is not so much about identifying as a lesbian but about
showing loyalty to her partner. Zoe finds a great deal of support in her
mother, who is thrilled to see her in a supportive, functional relationship for
a change.
I open my mouth, but
nothing comes out. There is no language to describe a betrayal this big. (...)
‘He’s trying to take away our baby.’ (p. 238)
Max, however, shares the bigoted views of his church, and
sees Zoe’s relationship with a woman as an affront to his own masculinity. It
is no surprise, then, that when Zoe asks his permission to retrieve one of the
frozen embryos left over from their IVF treatment so that Vanessa can give
birth to her baby, he allows his church leaders to escalate the couple’s
disagreement to a highly publicised court case.
The church argues that being a lesbian couple makes Zoe and
Vanessa unfit to become parents, and Zoe and Vanessa point out that Max – a
very recently recovered alcoholic living in his brother’s basement – is in no
position to be a father. The couple’s lawyer forces Max to reveal that he
actually intends to give the embryo his brother, who is infertile like Max, so
that he and his wife can raise the baby. Their argument is that this is even more
of a non-traditional family model and, what is more, the biological mother
would not be allowed access to the child because of Max’s homophobic views.
With a conservative, nearly retired judge presiding, the scales of justice
could tip either way, and drama mounts when we learn about Max’s affair with
his sister-in-law and an accusation of sexual harassment from Zoe’s patient who
also happens to be Pastor Clive’s daughter.
I thoroughly enjoyed this novel and would recommend it as
the discerning reader’s light read J
As in other books by Jodi Picoult, weighty and relevant issues are explored
with arguments from both sides being given voice. The Biblical rationale for
the church’s disapproval of gay adoption is explained well, and it’s clear that
although Pastor Clive and his cronies are far from the true spirit of
Christianity, the rank and file of the congregation – people like Libby, Max’s
sister in law – are mostly good people who try to follow scripture and love
their neighbour. Zoe and Vanessa’s relationship, in turn, is fairly portrayed
as a healthy, stable partnership where both women can thrive and depend on one
another; it stands in stark contrast with Max’s needy, immature behaviour as a
husband. It is clear where the author weighs in on the issue of equal rights
for LGBT couples, and I hope most readers will also feel the same way, but the
opposing side in the argument is given generous and fair treatment.
I have only two complaints. For one, I’ve always been
uncomfortable with the ‘homosexuality is not a choice’ argument. Whether or not
sexual orientation is genetically determined, it should not be viewed in the
same light as cancer or disfigurement. The novel focuses very strongly on this
argument, and the author comes close to saying that being gay is not Vanessa or
Zoe’s ‘fault’, thereby playing into the evangelical Christian argument that
homosexuality is ‘wrong’ or ‘sinful’.
Secondly, my copy of the book included QR codes that linked
to a website with music accompanying each chapter. It certainly is an
innovative and fun idea, but unfortunately I found the music to be unpleasant
if not absolutely dire! Insistent rhymes in the lyrics and high-pitched,
piercing vocals made it very difficult for me to listen to, and I stopped after
the first track. A real shame and a wasted opportunity, in my opinion.